Monday, December 12, 2011
leftover women
thought on sexing the intersexed
Prostitution to be legalized?
To be parallel with the claim, there are remarks from the sexually assaulted that they intentionally had sexual intercourse, being paid. Their reasoning to undergo the horrible experience of sexual relationship is emotionally resisting against the horrible memory and the criminal by controlling their sex through prostitution. To fight against the memory and freely decide whether or not to have sex through prostitution, they expect to feel relieved from the prostitution. Definitely it is from lack of emotional relief on them after the crime and society is also responsible from failing to help the victims recover from the memory, the victims' reasoning to decide for prostitution is legitimate.
However, it is not a healthy way to be relieved and there are many more desirable methods to truly help the victims. Also, from absolute majority of prostitution, women make decision not from the reason mentioned above - sexual assaults. Therefore, I believe that women choosing prostitution to be able to control their sex is a minority and prostitution should be approached from another point of view regarding social merits of legalizing prostitution (It does not mean I am pro-prostitution). To exemplify, instead of banning prostitution and pushing the business into shadow - just like the Prohibition - legalizing it and putting it under strict governmental monitoring may be more favorable in multiple aspects.
Songs of Holy Mary
The first and the third story seems reasonable and effective in asking people for their beliefs in Jesus and Holy Mary. The lady from the first story is saved - accordingly to justice - and although his parents are killed in the sword fight, the fetus survives as his mother's last wish. To loyally serve purpose of the stories, they are rewarded for their faith. Also from the second story, the lady who slept with her own son is saved as well, from the same reason.
However, the moor servant from the first story, the lady and son from the second story are helped by Holy Mary in "wrong" manners. The moor servant, although it is not written whether or not he tries to resist against committing adultery, is burned to death for what he did as he is ordered as a servant. Even though he did not resist the mother-in-law's order, he has no choice as a servant. Therefore, it is not righteous to save only the lady. Also, as the story implies that there is no actual adultery but the moor simply lies with the lady, it is a misconception to order execution for both the servant and the lady.
From the second story, there is a confusion, even worse than one from the first story. Unlike common notion and definition of "devil," devil tells truth of the lady sleeping with own son. Although it is explained that he does so to see a true believer killed, what the devil does should be deemed exemplary. Along with devil acting as a protagonist, the lady pardoned for the adultery complicates the story even more. Although it is understandable that sincere faith in Holy Mary will override any punishment, it does not seem to be the most effective way to embrace solid Christianity.
In reality, the third story is probably the most reasonable and understandable story considering what virtues the Christianity and the Bible embrace. Although the pregnant lady is killed, her last wish is realized thanks to her faith and the baby grows up to be a healthy man. Though the last story is morally flawless in encouraging sincere belief, I think the first and second stories would have been better with some "modifications."
Thomas Beatie's story
Thinking how his story is related to the queer theory also reminds me of intersectionality. Though the case is pretty different from an example suggested from the class - African-American women in 1960s - Mr. Beatie achieves seemingly impossible mission of being man and woman at the same time. This is a significant event in LGBT's struggle for full rights as rest of the society. While Mr. Beatie is legally a man, "she" is also a woman through carrying a baby. Being forced to modify previous system of defining mother and father, the society and American government would have to find a new mechanism so that biological sex-based nomenclature of mother and father should better describe parents from gay couples, lesbian couples and potentially more "Mr. Beaties" to come in future.
Peccatum Mutum
Malleus Maleficarum
some thought about "The Ravage of Vice"
After reading “The Ravages of Vice”, I had some thoughts about the story that Lisis told. I am most impressed by the last scene that Don Donis killed all of people in his house. When he found that the servant Fernando left his wife’s bedroom at midnight, he immediately assumed that there was an adultery between his wife and the servant and killed them without doubt. It reveals two things. First, Don Donis had little faith in his wife. Actually, he did not see any scene that could truly prove the adultery. However, he was very certain that his wife betrayed him. It was because Don Donis disregarded and distrusted women before. He even claimed women as “false, treacherous, immoral, dishonorable”. So when he saw the servant was with his wife, the first thought he had was adultery.
Another thing I derive from this story is that men always tolerate their own betray but ask more for women’s loyal. Although Don Donis had betrayed his wife for four years, he did not consider himself as guilty. Instead, he thought that he was pursuing the true love, which was totally right. However, when he discovered the “adultery” between his wife and the servant, he was raged and gave the most harsh punishment to both of them. Don Donis’ sexual double standard implies that he had a great desire to control women’s bodies.
The transponder in real life
I personally have neer interact with any transgender people in my whole life. Before I take this gender study class, I do not think there is any chance for me in later life either. However I recently know a television show called TRANSform ME, which was emceed by transgender people. TRANSform ME is a reality show recording how three transgender women, Jamie Clayton, Laverne Cox and Nina Poon, help change another girl's life style into a more fashion way.Children and Gender Roles
I feel like this is what the course is all about. This is why gender studies exists. The alteration of the "normal" perception of what gender pertains to. These children have been brought up the way society has planned for them to. Their standard for gender identity seems to be very practical.
Although they do not represent the whole population of children in the world, it is fascinating to me to see how our society works, along with the psychological aspects of gender role stereotypes. (Although it was a little disturbing for me when they do the exercise with the barbie and ken dolls.)
Yeah, I just was so excited to find this video. Makes everything else make sense.
Sunday, December 11, 2011
Marilyn Monroe and gender role
Recently I went to a lecture naming the complex life of Marilyn Monroe, and have some thoughts about it. In the lecture, the speaker showed several precious photos of Marilyn Monroe in her different period of time. From the photos, I learn her life as a bold woman who was willing to break distinguish kind of gender roles.
At first, Marilyn Monroe broke the role for white women. she was the first group of women who joined the working field when the American government was hoping for women workers during the World War 2. Regardless the fact that most of white people were still taking responsible for their family. More, she broke the role society for traditional women. There is one photo of her attending to the party of John Kennedy, where she wore no underwear but only a formal dress. Her fearless appearance ensure herself as the sexy symbol in America. Marilyn Monroe also a homosexual. She once dated the American star Joan Crawford, and had a one-night relationship with her. Consequently she broke the role for women.
Beauty and desire
Thoughts on leftover women
Desire
Why men and women can't be friends..
So basically, they did a poll at Utah State asking "Do you think men and women can just be friends?" with both male and female responders and most of the women said yes and a lot of the men said no. The men claim that "physical attraction" keeps them from being close friends with females. When they asked the women if they think that their guy friend would hook up with them if they had a chance, or even if they like them, the women all responded yes.
I had even asked a number of my friends, both guys and girls, the same question and got the same responses.
It's weird to think of the men that are the ones that are unable to control their sexual desires, when in fact, all of our readings in class have described it as the other way around. That women can't help themselves because they are naturally flawed whereas men, being perfect would be able to control their desires.
We have seen it in almost every romantic comedy. Man and woman try to be friends, one of them secretly likes the other, and there is a whole two hours worth of plot trying to conceal that emotion from the other and when they find out, they all live happily ever after as MORE THEN FRIENDS.
So... I guess they're right. Men and women cannot be just friends.
Transgender people in fashion industry
some resources:
“Transgender Fashion Model Lea T. “ from The Oprah Winfrey Show :
http://www.oprah.com/oprahshow/Transgender-Fashion-Model-Lea-T-Video
Lea T and Kate Moss:
Teri Toye (the first transgender model in public manner):
Fashion industry has used transgender people models since 1970s
. However, at that time these models were not accepted by the public. For example, April Ashley was a very popular model in the beginning of 1960s. However, after she was discovered that she was transgender, she was abandoned by the world. Even her film was forbidden to display. The society at that time could not tolerate transgender people.
Nowadays, fashion industry not only accepts transgender people but also appreciates their faded beauty. In 2011 London fashion week, there were several transsexual models in the catwalk. One can hardly distinguish who is woman and who is man. The faded sex role is a fashion trend led by a male-to-female model, Lea T. In 2010, she acted a fashion advertisement for Givenchy with several male models. The advertisement made a big stir in the fashion world. Just after the advertisement was published, the agent of Lea T received over 400 requests of interviewing. Then she became the cover girl for “Vogue” for two times and even was a guest on Oprah’s talk show.
This change in fashion industry challenges the typical gender role constructed by society. As more and more transgender people show in media, society will not consider they are “queer”, instead consider them as normal. Who knows, one day there may be a third gender. In addition, as a transgender people’s magazine “Candy” says “Nowadays, women and men have more chances to change their bodies than ever, no matter by doing a surgery or applying cosmetics. People have more control to their appearances.” Some people may be unused to see transgender people on the screen. But for a long term, it is beneficial because it provides the society another angle to consider “gender” and people are encouraged to be who they really are.
Saturday, December 10, 2011
Some thoughts about men's giving birth
John Frog was written in the era of Renaissance when the society was based on hierarchy. John Frog was a double-sided person: he was a successful comedian while in his personal life, he conducted sodomy. Sodomy was a sin so severe under the ethical terms of that era that the person who conducted should be sentenced to death. However John frog survived and was released without any investigation. The main reason was that Joh Frog served those people who were in upper classes. This was a clear demonstration about the hierarchy of the society at that time. The ethical code was succumb to class. The play writer took advantage of John Frog's dual characteristics to produce comedies about Men's giving birth, in order to warm audience (at that time people who were able to watch plays were those who had high statuses) up, from which we can see among upper class, such anti-ethnicity behavior was a source of fun.
One thing that I conclude from the phenomenon is that during Renaissance, ethnicity was a method of ruling ordinary people. Those who stayed at the lower classes were strictly ruled according to these codes (sodomy = death penalty), while people in upper class used this theme for fun.
Men's giving birth on the one hand warned men that women had the evil power that could torture them, and on the other hand, it showed that men, though ruled women, felt unsafe because women could give them child from other men. Bearing their own baby could guarantee the identities of the off springs. The inter-ruling built up the barrier between men and women and such confrontation (men overtly oppress women, and women covertly harmed men) existed for so long that women's offense finally turned above-table which in my opinion became the movements of feminisms.
Friday, December 9, 2011
Comedy and Misogyny
Thursday, December 8, 2011
Gender Conflicts in Video Games
Rick Perry discrimination campaign
"I’m not ashamed to admit that I’m a Christian, but you don’t need to be in the pew every Sunday to know there’s something wrong in this country when gays can serve openly in the military but our kids can’t openly celebrate Christmas or pray in school. As President, I’ll end Obama’s war on religion. And I’ll fight against liberal attacks on our religious heritage. Faith made America strong. It can make her strong again. I’m Rick Perry and I approve this message."
The “Strong” Ad is a campaign ad for the 2012 republican presidential candidate. The ad became a viral video because of Perry’s negative statement about Don’t Ask Don’t Tell, the ban on gays serving openly in the military, and received over 200,000 thumbs down votes in less than three days. Comments were banned from being posted.
I do not believe that religion has not been banned in public places. For example, If a student wanted to pray before an exam, that would be totally fine, as they have freedom of religion. However, if a teacher tried to lead a class in prayer before they all took an exam, then that’s not ok, as he’s more or less forcing his religion onto them, and thus infringing on their rights to be free from religion.
My question is simple: Do you think there will there ever be peace with the LGBT community in our country? As we are in such a progressive era, it is hard to believe that such things like sexuality can separate us.. but they do.
A Gay Fantasia on National Themes
Friday, December 2, 2011
Occupy in Gender terms
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Does 'Glee' Promote Homosexuality? by Alisa Harada
Do ex-girlfriends (or boyfriends) go crazy?
Depiction of Women in "500 Days of Summer" by Alisa Harada
Angels and Demons
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Shorter University Discriminates against LGBT's.
(CNN) -- When Shorter University in northwest Georgia recently informed its 200 employees that they had to sign a "personal lifestyle pledge" requiring them to reject homosexuality or lose their jobs, school administrators underscored a staggering injustice: In 29 U.S. states, people can still be fired for being gay.
While same-sex marriage and other equality debates soak up political and media attention, the Employment Non-discrimination Act, a 37-year-old bill, languishes in the U.S. Congress.
Without that federal law, a majority of our states condone job, housing and other discrimination based on sexual orientation. An even larger number -- 35 -- have no protections for transgender people.


